- Chinese psychology

 Plane that old professor's words: psychological counseling is to make people feel good about self, feeling as if almost impossible, as Dr. Xiaodong Yue sparked interest in psychological counseling. And Yue Boshi's

the years, each time carefully read this book, will have different gains, experience their own growing like bamboo shoots higher and higher. In 2001, as a national key vocational schools, mental health education to be carried out. At that time we Wenzhou, this is a new term, visionary Xuding Jun principals I learned about the first dry up. After that, I entered the mental health of primary and secondary education in Wenzhou City Seminar on learning, teaching and research staff Xuhui Zhu teacher in the city created by this platform, I like a duck to water, with a lot of learning and practice opportunities. In recent years, I have a common accounting teacher, Vocational Education Center of Binh Duong

We have nearly 3,000 full-time in school, we all know, vocational school students are a special group of student groups, they are selected in the examination after the exam and students, students with high quality students to have clear-cut than the S & P gap. Most of them had there been a more serious psychological problems, emotional depression, confusion of self-worth, mental impulsiveness, lack of codes of conduct and the confidence of success and so on. There are still some students into the vocational school, learning environment suited to the new face of professional courses of study and future employment of the pressure generated a series of complex psychological contradictions and conflicts, so that they exist to varying degrees, lack of awareness of learning easily assimilated by the outside world, we take the initiative, collective consciousness, ability to cooperate with others, the lack of self-confidence and other psychological imbalance. Our school's leadership attaches great importance to the mental health of teachers and students in education. September 2001, we opened a counseling room,

youth education and scientific research through the backbone of Wenzhou Teachers (mental health) Phase II study and seminar class for the first phase of research, I have mental health education in schools had a strong interest in, and put a lot of time and effort. Usually participate actively in education and training of mental health topics, focusing on personal growth. April 2003, Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences made the November 2005, attended the China National Centre for Mental secondary education teacher training, psychological counseling, and passed the exam. January 2007 Mental Health Education in Zhejiang Province first batch of teachers to obtain job card A card.

In practice, I have accumulated a wealth of experience in psychological counseling and advice. Vocational Education Center is currently Director of Mental Health Education Center, is responsible for more than 3,000 teachers and students of the school mental health education. January 2005, was elected Wenzhou City Mental Health Education in Primary and Secondary Education Committee member. July 2006 as the city core subjects of mental health education teachers. March 2007 was elected in Wenzhou Vocational Education Research branch of the governing moral education. August 2007 was named Outstanding Moral Education Teachers city, county, excellent teacher, excellent Moral Education Teachers in Wenzhou City, Wenzhou City, advanced education, mental health workers. Pingyang County in 2007 was hired as the backbone of the first phase of mental health education teacher seminar instructor. Mental health education teachers in Zhejiang Province or job card C permit interviewers, Wenzhou City, acceptance of school counseling members of the Group Station.

2007, the country I speak of obtaining secondary vocational qualification counselors, registered spiritual flight Pingyang Psychological Counseling Center, for the community in the consulting, training and leisure activities. Continuous progress in their growth at the same time, the concept of mental health will bring more and more people around, so that they can be concerned about the mental health, improve the quality of life, building a harmonious society to contribute my own strength.

2007 年 -2008 years, I center and counseling center in Xiaoshan, Binh Duong Vocational Education Center tripartite cooperation, the creation of the two national vocational qualification training counselors. Students to absorb Cangnan and Pingyang, Ryan three counties of teachers, medical workers, business executives and other people interested in the psychological consultation. A strong teaching faculty and quality training management services to our local won a good reputation.

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psychological counseling in my history, I remember most is the class, I determined from conception to lesson plans to finalize the commencement of the process, got a lot of teacher guidance and help. I recall that in November 2003, to Dongtou open this lesson, we led the White County Department of Education teachers and Lin Peng Xi Zhou to our school teachers also try to listen to my students have been back I mentioned a few suggestions, it is is good enough. Their valuable experience not only brought me the lesson was the more refined the color, also made the changes I repeated the process in general learned a lot. I own insights and harvest are summarized as follows:

1, identify small targets counseling

as a class time is limited, if the target is too large counseling, then, will be involved in aspects of are more difficult to make the topic in depth, will certainly affect the counseling effect. Physical and mental development of high school students become more sophisticated, they were eager to get rid of young juveniles, but adults in their own lack of maturity and sophistication. This contradiction and conflict in interpersonal communication is most evident. At this stage, students and parents vertical linkages weakened, and horizontal linkages with peers to strengthen. They are eager to be accepted by peers, in others, some unreasonable requests, often in order to take into account the Therefore, I will determine how to target arts counseling refuse unreasonable requests of others.

2, content of counseling to be close to the student life activities

counseling activities should be based on carrier class, so that students experience in the activity, sentiment. The form of counseling can be varied, reflecting the lessons interesting psychological counseling activities, such as comedy shows,UGG boots clearance, role-playing, games, etc., but the content of the activities must be consistent with the objectives and guidance, closely linked to the theme, according to the cognitive development of our students level,bailey UGG boots, orderly, step by step to determine content.

counseling goals clear, I collected some related to this case, as a Which in actual combat exercise session, I wanted to let the students summed up their rejection with the skills to cope with school life often appear in state. When the school lecture, a teacher give me a little on this proposal: If the examples discussed here can be refined a little, a little more representative the better. I think it makes sense, then cut into three to six examples, including learning (my good friend asked me to meet him cheating in the exam, how do I say to him?), There is life ( students call me insulting nickname, I do not point to fat Well, call me brilliant ``````), spring adolescent heterosexual relationship has (with the opposite sex students to write love letters to me, let me do his (her) Female (male) friend, how to refuse good?), the topic of the discussion is both representative and has a universal significance.

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counseling program is designed to be very important, but the teachers counseling process control is a more important issue. I lecture in several classes found: in the same language under the guidance of the different classes of students to understand the depth of the degree is not large, as the depth of discussion varies. How can it when the start of the program to enable students to think deeply, lively discussion, great answer it? Have a senior mental teachers give me a coup: to meet with students before class time, do first a small survey, so that students living in some similar dilemma have thought in advance. So in the classroom encounter similar scenarios with, they will think more deeply.

this class, In addition, in December 2006, and I for the city of

Second, individual psychological counseling



I was a student in the process of individual counseling, there are some that impressed me so far the case, for example:

Student A:

Vonnie (pseudonym), a sad face to tell me something wrong with his mind, she pointed to the specific location of the side of the head, said: days a regular pain and headache, when in touch if the hand, but also felt that parts of the skin are not the same. In order to cure headaches, diagnosed her to the hospital several times, have not found any lesions. But she still worried, perhaps specifically to the parents of Wenzhou, an expert check your brain, but also do a variety of instruments, diagnostic, the results did not find organic disease. But Vonnie stubbornly that: even the best instrument when there are failures, even the best doctors have misdiagnosed the time. She was sure I had a strange headache. She is very eager to one day cure it, and she was convinced that The main issues were the main changes is the degree of emotional disorder is an abnormal psychological problems in general. Are due in the types of learning (JEE) caused by anxiety.

identity based on seeking help, a strong motivation to change, so this case I consider the use of Morita therapy, natural resistance that exists in reality is useless to take a hands on approach anxiety, to make progress with their own desire to do should be done immediately.

this consultation process is divided into three phases: the first visit to the establishment of consultative relations, stability, anxiety. The second phase of the problem using Morita therapy, explore root causes. The third phase of

conducted five consultation, she excitedly told me: not to worry about. immediately see the counseling effect.

Later, I put together about this case in the 2004 Mental Health Education in Zhejiang Province, the Mentoring program,

frank letter from the face of a seal, a trust in both eyes, I feel great responsibility, not neglect. How many sleepless nights, to find books, information, phone calls, the QQ students with peers encountered cases. In addition, I also keep in touch with a psychiatrist, Wenzhou, encountered difficult cases, timely, and their communication, timely referrals.

After years of exploration, our school way of individual counseling with students needs and the actual situation, there are interviews, letters, online chat, e-mail and other methods available to students free to choose, but also with Psychology teacher appointment. Our consulting room called much faster, I have forgotten to apply for reimbursement to the school.

in the usual daily work, I think the most rewarding thing is to learn their own psychological knowledge to the classroom management. September 2005, I took a combined two professional e-commerce and accounting classes. From the high beginning, our class of three consecutive semesters of civilization class, the students a strong collective sense of honor, very strong agglutination class, so classes have been among the best out of the six practices, there is a section of the first semester class. The behavior of high school students have a certain ability of doing things, it needs the opportunity and platform to show and exercise. Class service in our class work is a lot of student leaders, the group long to complete. For example, our class duty, out of bulletin boards, learning is conducted as a team, and I also encourage them to actively participate in various community activities in schools,cheap UGG boots, give them with ideas, find ways to deal with them to learn, work and the problems they encounter in life, I established between students and teachers and students of equal and harmonious relationship. Students in our class had a good day is

in practitioners of the past few years, I was learning by doing so, step by step, across the river by feeling the stones. In the course of mental health education, I truly feel the charm of a psychological counseling, in helping others, I also understand their own improvement and growth, this may be the idea of psychological counseling I hope to help more visitors from the mire of self-esteem and confusion break out of their own, to achieve